Tuesday, December 3, 2024

How Reading Helped Me Through Tough Times

Books have a unique ability to comfort us when life feels overwhelming, offering escape, understanding, and sometimes even a spark of hope. During my own tough times, reading became my sanctuary—a place where I could find solace, inspiration, or simply a few hours away from the weight of reality. Some books brought me comfort with their familiar characters and uplifting stories; others challenged me to see the world differently or reassured me that I wasn’t alone.


Here are a few of the books that carried me through life’s rough patches and the ways they shaped my outlook.


The Hobbit by J.R.R. Tolkien

Tolkien’s The Hobbit has always been a favorite, but during a particularly challenging period in my life, it became much more than a story. Bilbo Baggins’ journey from the comfort of his hobbit-hole into a dangerous, thrilling adventure reminded me that even the most unlikely people can summon great courage when faced with the unknown.

  • Why It Helped: Bilbo’s growth mirrored what I needed to find within myself at the time. I wasn’t fighting trolls or dragons, but I was battling self-doubt and uncertainty. His story reminded me that bravery doesn’t mean being fearless—it means acting despite fear.

The comforting tone of Tolkien’s writing, paired with the richness of Middle-earth, gave me a much-needed escape from my own worries while gently nudging me to face my challenges head-on.


The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe by C.S. Lewis

C.S. Lewis’s The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe offered me comfort during a time when I needed to believe in magic and the power of good overcoming evil. The story of four siblings stepping into a world where courage and love can change everything struck a deep chord in me.

  • Why It Helped: As I read about Lucy, Edmund, Susan, and Peter’s bravery in the face of the White Witch’s cold tyranny, I found parallels to my own struggles. The story reassured me that dark times are temporary and that light, no matter how faint, will always return.

There was also something deeply comforting about the sense of family and togetherness that runs through the book. It reminded me of the importance of leaning on loved ones during difficult times.


Mistborn by Brandon Sanderson

When I discovered Brandon Sanderson’s Mistborn trilogy, it was a revelation. The story of Vin, a street thief who rises to become a hero in a crumbling world, resonated with me in ways I didn’t expect.

  • Why It Helped: Sanderson’s storytelling is full of hope, even in the face of despair. Vin’s journey from mistrusting everyone to building meaningful relationships gave me a renewed appreciation for connection and trust, even during challenging times.

The high-stakes adventure and intricate magic system also provided a much-needed mental escape, drawing me into a world that was both complex and enthralling.


Kushiel’s Dart by Jacqueline Carey

Jacqueline Carey’s Kushiel’s Dart was a book that surprised me with its depth and power. The protagonist, Phèdre nó Delaunay, is a character who faces unimaginable challenges but does so with grace, intelligence, and an unshakable belief in her own worth.

  • Why It Helped: Phèdre’s story is one of resilience and self-acceptance, themes that felt incredibly personal to me. Reading her journey reminded me that even in moments of vulnerability, we can find strength and purpose.

Carey’s lush prose and richly drawn world also gave me a sense of beauty and wonder, even when my own life felt chaotic.


Great Expectations by Charles Dickens

Charles Dickens’ Great Expectations came into my life when I needed to be reminded of the value of personal growth and humility. Pip’s journey—from an idealistic, somewhat self-absorbed boy to a man who values love and loyalty above all—was deeply inspiring.

  • Why It Helped: Pip’s mistakes and eventual redemption taught me that it’s okay to falter, as long as we learn from our experiences. This message helped me to forgive myself during a particularly difficult time when I felt like I wasn’t living up to my own expectations.

The timeless themes of the novel made me feel connected to a larger human experience, reassuring me that we all face struggles and triumphs in our own ways.


Final Reflections

Reading has always been more than a pastime for me—it’s a lifeline. These books offered me perspectives I needed, whether it was an escape into fantasy, a reminder of my own strength, or a new way to look at the world. They taught me lessons I carry with me to this day and continue to inspire me when life feels overwhelming.

Books have a way of meeting us where we are, offering solace and strength when we need them most. Which stories have helped you through tough times? Let me know—I’d love to hear how reading has shaped your journey.


This piece celebrates the healing power of stories and how they offer us a lens to reframe our struggles and triumphs.

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